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Thank you for a very important article with excellent points. Sadly, this fear is one of the unnecessary concerns that keeps couples from pursuing designing a home that will truly enhance their lives. In my experience, the key is to not to just negotiate some wins and losses for each person or to force a life of continued compromise, but instead to discover what is truly behind each preference and figure out how to achieve the desired outcomes for both spouses creatively. Living in a home that sabotages your progress every day has a high, unmeasured cost. That drain is more expensive than most people are willing to acknowledge. The good news is that, with coaching, it is possible to uncover the core features that make a space truly supportive for each of you -- and both of you. You can create a home that truly enhances both your lives.

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Eydie Girl
My husband and I almost got a divorce when we tried to build a chicken coop together.
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Rebecca Abraham Design

Hire a Designer to be the referee, marriage counselor, and parent!!

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