4 Tips on How to Be a Good Mentor From US Pros
Learn four ways to create a successful mentorship experience that can benefit both your business and your trainees
There are so many things about running a design business that they don’t teach you at college or university. Fortunately, mentorship can be a way to bridge the gap between theoretical knowledge and firsthand experience. We talked with two established USA-based professionals about how mentoring played a role in their own careers, and what it takes to be an effective mentor today.
We’ve accompanied this story with images from our photo archives by Houzz pros around the world.
We’ve accompanied this story with images from our photo archives by Houzz pros around the world.
Today, Steidley runs her own design firm and has a junior designer and an intern on staff. She tries to teach them in the same way her first mentor helped her.
“It’s not about holding someone’s hand, it’s about being there to lend an ear and offer helpful advice,” she says. “A lot of those soft skills about dealing with clients don’t come naturally – it takes time and experience to acquire them. If I can jump-start that process … it’s a benefit to their careers as designers and to me as a business owner.”
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“It’s not about holding someone’s hand, it’s about being there to lend an ear and offer helpful advice,” she says. “A lot of those soft skills about dealing with clients don’t come naturally – it takes time and experience to acquire them. If I can jump-start that process … it’s a benefit to their careers as designers and to me as a business owner.”
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2. Become an advocate for your apprentice
Entering the world of construction, Pierrette Tierney of Magleby Construction in Utah, USA, found herself in a male-dominated environment. “The first construction firm that hired me was open-minded and looking to diversify their team, but it could still feel pretty intimidating sitting at the conference table in a meeting and being the only female there,” she says.
One of that firm’s top talents became her mentor, but more importantly, went beyond the traditional coaching role. “Being someone’s mentor is great, but the next level is to become their ‘sponsor’ – someone who actively advocates for you to others,” says Tierney. “My mentor wanted my voice to be heard and to provide a new perspective.”
Entering the world of construction, Pierrette Tierney of Magleby Construction in Utah, USA, found herself in a male-dominated environment. “The first construction firm that hired me was open-minded and looking to diversify their team, but it could still feel pretty intimidating sitting at the conference table in a meeting and being the only female there,” she says.
One of that firm’s top talents became her mentor, but more importantly, went beyond the traditional coaching role. “Being someone’s mentor is great, but the next level is to become their ‘sponsor’ – someone who actively advocates for you to others,” says Tierney. “My mentor wanted my voice to be heard and to provide a new perspective.”
While this might seem like a magnanimous act on the part of the more experienced professional, it also had benefits for the firm. “Generally speaking, half of your clients are females, so it’s really important to have a female perspective within a firm – someone who is raising ideas and concerns that may have gone overlooked in the past,” says Tierney.
Now vice president of business development for Magleby Construction, Tierney was more comfortable in all-male environments than other women entering the construction industry may be. “I grew up with three brothers,” she says. “But I recognise that isn’t always the case. That’s why it’s so important to be a sponsor and advocate for voices and ideas not previously heard,” she says.
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Now vice president of business development for Magleby Construction, Tierney was more comfortable in all-male environments than other women entering the construction industry may be. “I grew up with three brothers,” she says. “But I recognise that isn’t always the case. That’s why it’s so important to be a sponsor and advocate for voices and ideas not previously heard,” she says.
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3. Give trainees opportunities to take the lead
One of the most important roles a business owner faces as a natural mentor to employees is to give them a chance to shine. “It can be tempting to teach them everything you know and then expect them to do everything the way you do it,” says Steidley. “But if you don’t give them an opportunity to present new ideas and take the lead, you’re doing a disservice to them and your business.”
For example, Steidley recently had a new designer take the lead on a large kitchen project that needed a reimagined floor plan. “I wanted him to understand and grapple with every aspect of the project,” she says. “Doing so empowers a young designer to express their ideas and come up with something amazing that I may not have thought of on my own.”
One of the most important roles a business owner faces as a natural mentor to employees is to give them a chance to shine. “It can be tempting to teach them everything you know and then expect them to do everything the way you do it,” says Steidley. “But if you don’t give them an opportunity to present new ideas and take the lead, you’re doing a disservice to them and your business.”
For example, Steidley recently had a new designer take the lead on a large kitchen project that needed a reimagined floor plan. “I wanted him to understand and grapple with every aspect of the project,” she says. “Doing so empowers a young designer to express their ideas and come up with something amazing that I may not have thought of on my own.”
Allowing young employees this freedom means that you, the boss or mentor, also need to let go – and let them work. “You can’t be too worried about them making mistakes and second-guessing their every move. If you do that, they can become too safe in their decisions, and their work will be stale and generic,” she says. Instead, allow the extra time they’ll need to complete a project without micromanagement and help only when they need it. “Putting that extra time and investment into them will result in better designers and better design.”
One great way for designers to share their vision for a project is through Houzz Pro business and project management software’s Mood Boards tool and a newly updated 3D Floor Planner. These tools enable pros to create visualisations of their projects that give clients a realistic, easy-to-understand view of the designs.
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One great way for designers to share their vision for a project is through Houzz Pro business and project management software’s Mood Boards tool and a newly updated 3D Floor Planner. These tools enable pros to create visualisations of their projects that give clients a realistic, easy-to-understand view of the designs.
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4. A mentor does what’s best for their trainee
One of the most rewarding aspects of being a mentor is watching a young designer grow and excel in their career. And taking on a mentorship role comes with the responsibility to do what’s best for your apprentice or new team member.
“If they have an opportunity for a new job or role that doesn’t exist for them at our firm, I’m not going to be selfish and hold them back,” says Tierney. Also, “I’ve taken calls from other construction firms looking to hire former mentees, and I’ve been happy to vouch for their abilities.”
Tierney finds that advocating for her trainees ends up working in her favour later, even if it means letting them go in the short-term. “I have also had former mentees send amazing job candidates my way because they trust me,” she says. “It’s a two-way street that benefits everyone involved.”
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One of the most rewarding aspects of being a mentor is watching a young designer grow and excel in their career. And taking on a mentorship role comes with the responsibility to do what’s best for your apprentice or new team member.
“If they have an opportunity for a new job or role that doesn’t exist for them at our firm, I’m not going to be selfish and hold them back,” says Tierney. Also, “I’ve taken calls from other construction firms looking to hire former mentees, and I’ve been happy to vouch for their abilities.”
Tierney finds that advocating for her trainees ends up working in her favour later, even if it means letting them go in the short-term. “I have also had former mentees send amazing job candidates my way because they trust me,” she says. “It’s a two-way street that benefits everyone involved.”
Your turn
Have you been a mentor at work? Tell us what worked best, like this story, share it with your team and join the professional conversation.
More
Want more practical advice for home design and building professionals? Read 4 Ways to Build a Long-Term Relationship With Homeowners
Staci Steidley of Studio Steidley in Texas, USA, started as a junior designer at a large commercial firm right out of college. “To be honest, if it wasn’t for a lead designer who took me under her wings, I would’ve been lost,” she says. “She taught me the ropes and the soft skills that you really don’t learn in school.”
Steidley’s mentor provided her with a safe space to ask questions. “It happened pretty organically,” she says. “I would find myself in her office discussing tips and strategies on how to present a project to clients with confidence, how to anticipate their questions and how to deal with conflicts when they arise.”