First of all, THANK YOU ALL for replying and trying to help. I'm sorry in being so late to reply to you all, but somehow, the Houzz app stopped sending me notifications when new replies came in. As a side note, I really hate their app and their website. It's so NOT user friendly! Those forums used to be such a joy to browse, and they managed to make it really frustrating. 😤
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Victor, Moosemac, thank you for stopping by! Victor, it's pretty warm in my house, but I'll keep that in mind; Moosemac, I'm glad the "losing leaves" is not a lone incident. You'll understand why later in this post, lol.
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Tapla, thank you so much for taking the time to give me such a detailed answer. Which I saved and printed for further reference. Sadly, it wont help the 2 avocados I mentioned originally in this post, because they both gave up and died a couple of weeks after I posted. The nursery claims they probably caught a root fungi, and that I shouldn't have repotted them when they were already fragile. Of course not a word about the crappy water logged soil they specifically told me to use. They also were very skeptical about that weird 5-1-1 soil mix I kept on mentioning. Whatever.
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On the positive side, I did, however, receive the 2 new avocado trees my husband got me. One about 2 weeks ago, was a true giant Cold Hardy, almost reaching the top of my 9 feet ceiling, and that I had to top a good foot to make manageable. The other one, a Haas, arrived a week ago.
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I couldn't repot the Cold Hardy immediately, I didn't have enough bark left, so it had to wait about 10 days for the bark to get delivered. During that time, it lost almost all it's leaves. Well, at least they can't blame it on the repotting or the 5-1-1... 😬 The Haas still had leaves when I repotted it. We'll see how they do.
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It was sheer luck that I decided to check for any answers on Saturday, because I repotted both trees yesterday, and used Tapla's advice right there and then for the big one. I received the bark on Friday, so that was my big project for the week end. It's done, but my already injured back is TRASHED.
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I repotted both in 5-1-1, and used the bricks at the bottom trick Tapla kindly gave me for the big one (THANK YOU). I made sure there was a column of soil going straight down the pot, right on the wick.
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The smaller one will get nested in a bigger pot with bricks all around it when it goes outside. I didn't have a big enough container to use the bricks trick on it. I will when I next repot it, though.
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I used the classic 5-1-1 recipe, 5x bark (repti-bark) 1x perlite, 1x container soil, I added a couple caps of slow release osmocote and 1 Tbsp of garden lime per gallon. I didn't soak the bark, because i simply don't have a container that's big enough to do it, and I had to do everything, on a giant tarp, in the middle of my living room... But I did give the trees a really good drink once repotted, and I will water them a little more often than I normally would for a week or so, to make sure they stay Hydrated.
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Sadly, I can't take them out on the deck, yet, because we've been experiencing crazy strong winds for the past week. And it's really not warm enough for avocados anyway. Last frost is later this week, for us, but it's still pretty chilly.
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I will keep this post updated with how the (new) trees are doing. As always, I welcome comments and advice, since you are all more experienced than I am. Thank you all again, and God bless.
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Atheen
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