Thank you all so much many of you suggested darkening the ceiling and leaving the beams the way it is to avoid too much work. What color did you guys had in mind?? isn't a lighter color suppose to open the room? Talianko and Hyde Evans and Shauna? ( I preferably will love a rustic lighter wood look, and the beams but does sound like a mission to get it done as sanding varnish on the ceiling might take me forever but if I get brave enough I might do it Sstar. Brio I do so want those curtains gone they are shocking :)you haven't seen the outdated blue couch yet... but I have to decide in the colors of the walls first :) I am inclined to have a rustic look for furniture... more like farm style and I also like wash off colors...my next vibrant color that i want to add is yolk yellow ( don't roll your eyes that will be in a cushions or a vase a picture) I am very impressed with all your answers and thank you all so much for taking the time to help a girl out :)

Yes.. I think you should paint, but... Why not lime wash the walls so you keep the look of timber and get the light, on trend Scandinavian aesthetic. I would go for a very light grey tint with a bright white ceiling and trim. Your fireplace and the deer would be great with this look: a rug and some white and grey cushions of differing textures would bring it all together. Coffee table candles would complete the Scandinavian look. Great room by the way!

I would love the rocking chair too, but way too expensive for me, unfortunately!! Yellow could be good... hmmm, will have a look, thanks

You don't see this much in photos. Usually the mouldings are painted the same colour as the ceilings which of course lowers the ceiling height even more! Vertical stripes would be fun!